Good morning all, I’m Scott Underwood.
I wanted to share an experience I had recently where I just followed my urge for a lack of better words.
On a given weekend I had the strong sense that I should just go out and go dancing. I’ve been taking dancing lessons, I was afraid to put myself on the floor. This was country western dancing and I’ve been interested in it so I followed my energy that day and I kept questioning, “why am I feeling like dancing?” This is unusual. But I did follow it I did go out.
There’s a nice little country bar here in town called Tom Ryans. I get to the bar early cause I wanted to get a seat near the floor to watch people dance country 2 step and country swing etc. I wanted to see if they knew something I didn’t before I got brave enough to get out on the floor.
With this, a woman and her girlfriend sit across from me at the table I’m at. I thought this was great, I got somebody to talk to, and she accessed me right away. She had plenty to drink and I looked at her girlfriend and I said, “hey who’s driving?” Cause I was concerned.
The girlfriend said, “I am.” And I said “great.” Anyway, with this we start a conversation.
Long story short, the woman I’m accessing gives me a lot of information about her husband and her aggravation with him at that point
Basically she wanted him to be affectionate and he would not be. So as the evening went, to my benefit, she had enough to drink, she didn’t know i was stumbling around the dance moves. And we danced intermittently and I danced with her girlfriend.
Long story short, she enjoyed the contact with me, just from a physical need of wanting to be held. I put all the pieces together of this story the next morning, I didn’t really know what was happening that evening, but I just went with the flow.
The point is, the urge that I went through and experienced so strong I couldn’t ignore it, even though it was out of place. But I followed through on the thought and the feeling and the inclination that I was getting.
Rather than going, eh what the heck. All I’m trying to say is don’t pass up an opportunity. If you feel pulled to go one way, go. You’ve got nothing to lose except the lack of that experience.
And who knows, you might end up at a country bar where you can dance and nobody knows you’re messing up and you could have a great time!
You guys take care and follow those urges.
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